There will always be women who watch you from the shadows of their own unfulfillment. This is not your burden to fix. Your task is simpler, and far more elegant: to keep becoming, quietly, beautifully and graciously.
Hi, Beauties! I hope this post finds you fabulous! 🙂 Since I certainly feel so, in my last days of holiday in Bulgaria. As usual something I observed in my private life made me write this post to share what I learned. Today I am also sharing 2 beauty items that I am implementing into my feminine rituals.
Being someone so focused on my aspirations, hobbies and growth since a child I can sincerely confess that I have never experienced the feeling of envy, unhappy for another human’ success. I have seen so beautiful, successful, wealthy women and never in my mind did I feel jealous, bitter, angry or whatever emotion accompanies this state of mind. In my family since I was very little this was considered ‘lack of values, bad character, ugly personality’ and since then I know that this feeling is destroying a woman’s beauty, charm and it’s totally useless. My instinct when I see someone better is to admire the higher level, and next I get curious. I get inspired and motivated to unlock my own fullest potential, not copy, imitate, but reconnect with my own blessings and follow my own journey. Unfortunately, at this age I have finally realised that that the majority of women don’t have this mindset. Very often you will be doing all the right things in your life and you will glow, grow and shine and that is why they will secretly despise you. Here is how to deal with them.
1. Let your standards speak before you do. A high-value woman does not announce her worth – she simply does not negotiate it. Your boundaries, your taste, your unhurried pace all say what words never could.
2. Guard your energy like the rarest perfume. Not every room deserves your fragrance. Choose spaces and company that meet you in softness, not those that drain you into proving yourself.
3. Respond to envy with elegance, never explanation. Jealousy is a mirror held up to someone else’s longing. You are not required to shrink so she feels comfortable. Stay gracious. Stay unbothered. Let your peace be the quiet answer.
4. Root your confidence in devotion, not comparison. Tend to your body, your home, your heart as sacred spaces. When your worth comes from within, no external gaze – admiring or resentful – can move you.
5. Choose your circle with the same care you choose your makeup, skincare. Surround yourself with women of substance, the ones who celebrate rather than compete. Classy company is not luck; it is a decision you make on repeat.
I hope these tips reach whoever was in need of them. To finish this post I am briefly mentioning my last lip combo from Charlotte Tilbury. Pillow talk is amazing, creamy, nourishing, natural for many occasions. The negatives include lip pencil coming without a sharpener and the lipstick is not very long lasting. Overall I like the combo, it has a luxury packaging, expected for the price and the pencil is really nice and easy to apply. More about unboxing of new products and reviews you can see on my Instagram.
So girl, you were not made to dim yourself for the comfort of rooms that were never meant to hold you. Rise in softness. Stay in your grace. The woman who lives this way is rarely touched by the noise around her – she is simply too devoted to her own becoming to notice it.
With softness and intention,
Gergana